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Thoughts on faith, motherhood, grief, writing, and the stories that shape us.

Faith Motherhood

'A Broken Leading Edge'

Generation X children of divorce carry a broken leading edge — spiritual stories shaped by loss. But God can take a generation's fractured faith and turn it into something glorious.

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Faith Motherhood

The Not-So-Great Divorce

My parents' divorce didn't just split a household — it snuffed out part of my existence. Thirty years later, I'm still untangling what it means to have your being divided between two worlds.

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Current Events Faith

Feeling Guilty for What I'm Not

Motherhood has a way of magnifying every inadequacy. I'm learning to celebrate the gifts God gave me instead of drowning in guilt over the woman I'm not.

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Grief & Loss Wellness

Taking Back the Night

The brutal gang rape in New Delhi forced me to confront my own mother's story and the uncomfortable truth that the objectification and assault of women is far from a thing of the past.

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Faith Grief & Loss

Rarefied Air

Climbing Pikes Peak taught me something about growing up motherless: it's harder to breathe in rarefied air, but the thin atmosphere makes it easier to hear God's voice.

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Faith Grief & Loss

My Mother's Faith

A childhood autograph book revealed my mother's unwavering faith — a faith forged through abuse, abandonment, and loss that she passed to me like a torch before she died.

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Wellness

Are Women Afraid of Each Other?

Deep friendships between women are rare, life-giving, and sometimes frightening. As my best friend moves across the country, I explore why female intimacy matters — and why so many women avoid it.

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Faith Motherhood

Uncomfortably Numb

Mothering two young children has dulled my once-sharp mind and stalled my writing career. But chasing perfection is the real enemy — and God is bigger than the zombie zone of early motherhood.

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Motherhood

Attachment Parenting, 1970s-style

My mom nursed me until I was five — long before attachment parenting had a name. That fierce bond gave me an emotional reservoir I still draw from as a mother myself.

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Motherhood

Mom's Milk+Formula=A Happy Baby

My friend Annabelle found her own unconventional path — pumping exclusively and supplementing with formula — proving that the best feeding plan is the one that works for mom and baby.

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Motherhood

The Joy of Nursing

A fellow journalist shares how a lactation consultant transformed her early struggles into nearly two years of nursing — and some of the most cherished moments of her life.

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